Really we have all played the victim when faced with failures.
It’s easy to turn ourself into a victim however the sooner we realize it is accepting situations and learning ultimately helps us to SUCEED
This automatically redirects my thoughts back to high school French II and sitting next to a friend as pop test scores were passed back.
The test was very difficult, especially for someone not exactly putting in the time I openly admit.
Now I have played the victim however at 16 I am proud of reflecting on my quick evaluation and response.
My friend grumbled ” she is a racist, I got a 61 because I’m Hispanic”
My response ” no, you got a 61 because you are dumb” lol
At that we both burst into laughter ( I had a 57!) I was dumb too lol
But it shows the victim mentality we all have if we enable it.
Instead I laughter
I accepted responsibility
I set structured study at home
And I passed the class and propelled myself to French III
ITS EASY TO GET CAUGHT IN THE BLAMESTORMING AND VICTIM MINDSET
SUCCESS COMES TO THOSE WHO CAN LEARN THE MOST